2 April 2013

An Open Letter to a Bully

How ironic that the very day that I write about bullying, found here that I encounter a bully on the street.  Here's my open letter to him, the unknown coward:

Dear man passing in the van,

I saw you looking at me from your side mirrors, laughing to your friend as I passed by on the car park.  My chin went up a little higher and I walked past, ignoring you.

Stood at the bus stop I saw you pull out of the car park.  I knew what was coming.

There are a lot of ways to describe me.  I am a brunette.  I have blue eyes.  I am of medium height.  I have, I'm told, a nice smile when I'm happy.  If you look a little deeper, you find I'm a happy girl.  I'm loyal, I'm friendly and I will give anyone the time of day.  But as I said, I knew what was coming.

"Fat bitch!!!!" you shout at me as you drove past me.  Too cowardly to say anything when I passed beside your parked vehicle, you shout it out on the main street, driving past so I cannot respond.  Well yes, sir, I'm fat, and yes, sometimes I am a bitch.

If you had done this to me a year ago you would have hurt me.  I would have put a brave face on but cried when I got home.  Now though, I just feel sorry for you and the person you are.

So how do we describe you?  The villain in the piece?  Nasty, for shouting at a woman alone in the street, cowardly for not daring to say it when I passed you, insecure if you find it necessary to insult someone you don't know and pathetic, because, well you are.

So I am a fat sometimes bitch.  You are nasty, cowardly, insecure and pathetic.  Overall, comparing us both, I think I'd prefer to be fat.

Lots of love,

The Woman you heckled in the street.
 
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9 comments:

  1. I hope he gets giant boils on his arse. What a total prick. 'People' like that are the lowest of the low. No-balls cowardly prick. F*ck him! x x

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    1. Ah Leah you made me smile with your comment :) You are so right, screw him! X

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  2. What a t***er! In fact no we should pity the brainless idiot, neanderthal man drives a van!

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    1. We should pity him. If it gives him pleasure to insult and hurt others, he has a very sad life indeed.

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  3. Every day a good deed. One arsehole out there became a little bright in his poor life just because you was there. Isn't is wonderfull? *irony off* xoxo

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    1. I'm just going to rise above it. He can't hurt me, the person in the end that looked stupid was him :)

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  4. something like this happened to me once - but the twist was i was walking with someone who i knew to be a victim of rape. and so as the car slowed down i took a lung full and yelled F*** You. in a really snarly aggressive voice. i know that they want the rise. and i shouldn't play into their hands. but just that one time, i gotta say, it felt really good to be ready. and loud.

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    1. I'm all for not playing into their hands but you were protecting your friend from potential hurt, so go you! X

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  5. Nothing constructive really to say Vic apart from what an absolute wanker. I am sure he has a penis the size of his brain ie.tiny!


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