There is a phrase “One man's trash is another man's treasure”. Whilst I don’t particularly like the wording
used, the meaning behind it stands true.
Not everyone’s version of perfect
is the same. There is not one standard
for how people should look, behave, be.
We are all different because we were meant to be. Striving to be perfect is pointless but in
fact, there is no such thing.
I have seen a lot of arguing and
debating on Twitter and other forums lately, which has been spurred on a lot by
the media. The “real women” argument and
what that statement means. For me, there
is no argument. WE ARE ALL REAL WOMEN!!
Whether you are fat, skinny, tall
or short we are all women. We are all
different and there is no perfect example of what we should be. Creating camps of fat v skinny is just
ridiculous.
Even in today’s world woman still
face challenges. In many countries of
the world women are still second class citizens. We still fight for the rights to our own
bodies and the phrase “She was asking for it” is still bandied about. We face enough challenges in life without
fighting between ourselves over who is thin and who is fat.
As long as you are happy with
yourself, no one has the right to judge you.
Happiness isn’t something that comes as standard and if you can attain
it, then you are already winning. I
don’t care if someone I meet is fat or thin.
If they are happy in themselves, that is what shines through.
I’ll end my little mini rant with
a quote from Dita Von Teese which is rather apt
“You can be the ripest, juiciest peach in the world, and there's still going to be somebody who hates peaches.”
